FAQs
Before the Date
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When contacting me, please include your name, age, preferred booking time, desired duration, and location. Any additional details you provide to enhance our time together are both valued and appreciated.
I prioritise suitors I feel I can build a connection with, so I recommend including any details about you that you feel comfortable sharing - whether it’s what inspired you to reach out, your vision for our time together, or even your favorite film. Rest assured, all information shared is treated with the utmost respect and discretion. I handle all communication personally; no booking assistants or managers will ever have access to our private and confidential messages.
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I’m based in Auckland, New Zealand and am excited to announce my first tour in Asia in May 2025. Because of my limited availability, it will be the only tour until May 2026.
Majority of my clients are from outside of New Zealand. As a travel companion specializing in FMTY experiences, most of my dates are trips together. My schedule allows only for a select number of these bespoke experiences, so I encourage you to check my calendar. Special rates are available at certain times of the year or for those seeking an ongoing connection across multiple trips.
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As a worldwide travel companion, I specialize in exclusive Fly Me To You (FMTY) experiences.
All travel-related expenses, including flights, accommodation, meals, and any activities during our time together, are covered in addition to my fee. To ensure I arrive rested and ready to provide my undivided attention, I ask for business or first-class for long-haul flights.
FMTY is available both for existing and first-time clients.
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A deposit is required to secure our time together, confirming your sincerity and commitment to our date. Please send it promptly, as I do not chase deposits or hold time for unconfirmed bookings. In the event of a cancellation on your part, the deposit is non-refundable but may be applicable to a rescheduled date.
Should I need to cancel, your deposit will be fully refunded within 24 hours.
Deposits can be made via Throne or TransferWise.
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Life happens, and I understand plans may change. If you need to cancel, please notify me as early as possible.
FMTY Dates
Deposit is transferable to another date if cancellations are made more than 30 days in advance.
Cancellations between 30 and 14 days before the scheduled date incur a 50% cancellation fee.
Cancellations within 14 days of the date are subject to 100% of the booked rate.
Dates on tour
For dates while on tour, deposit cannot be transferred to another date due to the limited time I have in each city. If you cancel more than 14 days in advance, deposit is transferable only for a 3 day weekend away date.
Cancellations made less than 14 days in advance have a cancellation fee of 100%, due to the limited time I have and the booking requests I declined for our confirmed date.
This policy applies to all clients, regardless of our long term friendship.
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My usual dress style is modestly elegant and very feminine, favouring dresses and skirts with luxurious knitwear.
I welcome general preferences for our date, whether it's the length of a skirt, a preference for a light or dark color palette, or even your favorite lipstick shade.
Additionally, I love and appreciate receiving an outfit chosen together to wear specifically to our date only. Please get in touch with your preferences and together we will choose something to delight you.
I am also able to wear my prescription glasses to our date upon request.
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Your privacy is my priority, and anything that happens during our time together remains strictly between us. For high-profile individuals, I am happy to sign an NDA before our meeting.
I maintain a strict no-review policy.
I never share my face online or send photos before meeting to ensure discretion when we are in public
I will never post about any gifts, dates, or trips on public social media pages. Our moments together are for us alone.
Should we ever meet in a social setting, you can expect me to be a total stranger in honour of our confidentiality.
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I will always keep all details of our date between us and know you will be considerate enough to afford me the same privilege. Therefore, I have a no-review policy.
I understand your apprehension about meeting someone new. To ease your mind, I am listed in directories that require photo verification, here and here.
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For privacy reasons, I do not maintain social media accounts for work.
To stay updated on my FMTY availability and other news, please sign up to my newsletter.
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I aim to answer all requests within 24 hours, but it is unfortunately not always possible with my frequent travel. Please allow for up to 48-72 hours for a response.
If it has been over 72 hours, please check your spam folder. Otherwise, your message may have been a one liner and did not give me a sense of what you were looking for.
The best way to get a prompt response is a polite, detailed message. I look forward to reading it!
FAQs
During the Date
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Bedtime: To ensure I am at my best for you, I prefer to be asleep by 11PM or earlier. This allows me to rest and recharge, ensuring we can fully enjoy our time together.
Overnight Bookings: For overnight bookings, I require 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep to be at my best. This ensures that I am well-rested and ready for our next day together.
Extended Dates (24+ hours): For dates longer than 24 hours, please allow for an additional 2 hours of personal time, in addition to the 8 hours of sleep, for workouts, emails, and other admin.
I thank you for your consideration and care.
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I require a 50% deposit for all dates, and the remaining 50% balance of my fee is to be paid at the beginning of our date via Throne or TransferWise. To ensure an enjoyable start to our time together, I suggest to make the payment in front of me and share the confirmation. Once I can confirm receipt, our date can proceed.
Please note, I will not ask or remind you about the balance. If payment has not been made within the first 10 minutes of our time together, I will politely excuse myself to the ladies’ room.
For your convenience, you are also welcome to settle the balance in advance or on the morning of our meeting.
This process ensures our time flows smoothly, free from any concerns, allowing us both to fully enjoy our shared experience. Thank you for your understanding.
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Both on tour and on joint trips, all expenses relating immediately to our date, such as transportation, refreshments and entertainment, are to be covered in addition to my rate.
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While touring, I am ready to welcome you to my 5* hotel suite for our time together.
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Thoughtfulness and kindness are the foundation of a meaningful connection. I trust you will show the same respect I extend to you.
In the truly unlikely event I feel unsafe or disrespected, I reserve the right to end our date immediately, with no refunds in such cases.
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Our health is of utmost importance to me. I always follow safe sexual practices to ensure mutual well-being.
FAQs
After the Date
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Discretion is paramount in my business, and I owe much of my success to the generous referrals from wonderful patrons. If you know someone who would enjoy our time together, I deeply appreciate your support in referring them to me.
Special rates are available for select dates as a token of gratitude for successful referrals.